Your life is determined by what people say or think about you. It might affect you, but it should never determine how you live your life. No one knows God’s plan for your life.
Your life is not determined by the way you look, but also remember that the way you look may be to your advantage or disadvantage.
God’s plan are not the same as a man’s plan. God looks at your heart while people look your physical abilities.
You should have faith that God’s plan is always the best and always on time. You might be in a bad place now but if you live in faith you’ll end well. It starts with you.